For MerPreneurs

It's a Fine Line

What I noticed from running our first Having What You Want in Your Relationship class last night is that we are all in the same boat.

We are all going through the same experiences in our intimate partnerships.

We're all trying to clean up the same past stuff from our past intimate relationships too...

When we hide our experience it's because we feel like we’re the only one going through something.

We get to stay stuck, because what is trying to bubble up to the surface of y…

While the Collective Unconscious is Rising Up.

This is not a new thing, it’s always been rising up. But it feels like a tipping point has occurred recently. Watch the video I made about it today.

As an archetype reader and coach I’m tuned in with the collective consciousness. And the collective unconscious has a tonne of gravity -- it keeps us swimming beneath the surface of awareness. In it we play out patterns, dynamics and dramas in our lives and our relationships that we can’t unravel. W…

Don’t be fooled about all of the rising of crazy energy.

I’ve had people around me tell me they think they are losing their mind, that things are getting worse for them despite all of the work they’ve been doing.

Well here’s a few little secrets I’d like to share.

While things may feel worse, it’s actually a really good sign. It’s all coming up, not to hold us back, discourage us and get more and more lost in it.

It’s coming up so you can be free of it.

If you consider humanity as a whole, …

Join Katrina and I as I share her Mermaid Archetypes with her (for the first time, on video!) and talk about the secrets of balancing the archetypes of the Masculine and Feminine in the fine art of Tantra.

Why Obstacles are Not a Divine Sign of Being Off Track

There isn’t a day that goes by in my coaching practice when I don’t hear this message:

“I gave up because I ran into blocks. The Universe/my inner guide was telling me this wasn’t the direction I was supposed to go.”

And the flip side, “If it’s easy that means I’m on the right track.”

It sounds so right and it’s become a popular spiritual truth.

But falling back on this 'truism' becomes a bigger block than all the blocks put together …

The Question Women Fear

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It's the question you are afraid of being asked and are likely always asking yourself, "Are you qualified, who the heck do you think you are?"

I hear women express doubts of their qualifications all the time. Like a script.

Since my mom passed away New Years Eve especially, I've been thinking about how women don't feel qualified to claim their expertise, even when they have tonnes of training and/or experience. My mom traded her aca…

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Seeing Through the "I’m Not Ready" Script

This a soul-killing, inspiration sucking and self-sabotaging script. And I hear it from the mouths of way too many gifted women, who actually have a tonne to offer.

Women are stuck in this place, because it’s a safe place.

But it’s not safe at all, it’s a smoke screen if you think it is.

If you have prepared yourself, if you have invested in yourself and put in the time and the energy to dig into what …

But Don't Love Following Through?

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As a woman entrepreneur you have that ‘breaking ground’ energy.

You like the excitement of newness - new territory, new projects, new collaborations.

You have initiative. You’re the brave one who will put in the extra time and energy it takes to get something off of the ground, woohoo!!!

But… do you run out of steam as soon as the shiny-new feeling wears off? And find yourself quitting, chasing distractions, or spreading y…

Tired of having others write your chapters for you?

This subject is near and dear to my heart. Reclaiming authority over myself saved my life from cancer after my second diagnosis when I was told I wouldn't survive it. It allowed me to have a peaceful, uninterrupted birth at home when my son was born. And it's allowed me to create a unique business where I am always expanding on my own cutting edge.

I'm reminded of the time at 28 when my life was literally hanging in the balance. News arrive…

I'm so fascinated by sea shells. These days in moments where I’m contemplating in my work I reach for them from a bowl I’ve been keeping in front of me. I’m fascinated by their beauty and also because they show how waves and spirals got frozen in time.

I like to hold them, feel their silky smoothness on the inside, and the roughness on the other that I could scrape off my callouses with.

I like that their shapes mimic the ocean. Shells actually look like the same waves and spirals that make th…